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1. Be selfless and considerate  - If your man is a Sport’s addict; prepare his favorite snacks and beer for the next big game. Leave a note telling him to enjoy the game and you will see him later.

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2. Communicate communicate communicate! – Most relationships suffer because no one communicates anymore. We find the time to communicate with everyone else via social media but find it difficult to communicate with the very person we NEED to. Speak to be understood. If communication is absent in the relationship, you might as well be strangers. 

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3. Keep people out of your personal life – Everyone needs to vent every once in awhile but be cautious WHO you are venting to. Whoever you are venting to, be clear that you are not looking for advice. If you are looking for advice, take the advice into consideration. Remember, YOU are the one that has to live with the results. 



4. Continue to date each other – Have lunch in the park, book a hotel in another city for a change of scenery, flirt through text like you used to when you first started to date, and keep the sex spontaneous!

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5. Pick your battles – Every thing does NOT have to be an argument or “situation.” Men are very good at this and women seem to struggle with this. For the most part, men will take you at face value. They have no intention on changing who YOU are. As women, we tend to look at men like “projects.” You wonder why you are so drained at the end of the day. Date a man for who he is and not who you can potentially MAKE him, Stop trying to find the things WRONG with him and continue to love him for the things he does do right.one that has to live with the results.